Sexy Secrets
Are you a transvestite, a drag queen, a transgendered woman, or a genetic woman looking for some sexy secrets about sexual illusion? .....This is for you.
Passing as a woman when you are a genetic male is probably one of the hardest things you will ever encounter. Guys don't sit like ladies they don't walk like ladies and they certainly don't talk like ladies. Forget the male accent, the content of guys conversations is entirely blokish. So what can you do ? - I have been at many tranny bars and seen a TV asking for a pint of bitter and a large portion of scampi in the basket.... the proverbial "thanks mate" resounding to the barman. I suppose that if you just want to have some fun, do something different and go out with your friends dressed as the opposite sex then all that would be fine. If you happen to be ex services elite special forces then the odd comment or worse from passers by will not concern you too much. A lady like punch in the throat is more the order of the day. Acting in the role of a woman takes time, practice and a great deal of confidence.
Confidence comes with knowing that you look pretty much ok and that at least you pass in general terms. Somebody in the medical profession once told me that one person in a hundred would make you as being from the opposite gender - I never actually believed that as I thought at first "Oh my God everybody is looking at me".The truth is that out in the real World people have not got the time to take much notice and if they did make you then chances are they would be more scared of you. Coming out in public is a real eye opener. I remember going into restuarants and heads turning and the obvious thought is "Ouch I'm made". Sorry, very wrong ! - and it took a few months for me to realise that if you are tall, have great legs most women would kill for and have long blonde hair you are going to get looked at. Indeed these days if I don't get looked at in restaurants and bars I get very pissed off - Hell it all cost a great deal of money so people should look. Ok so I am a TS (sorry I mean woman) but the same principles apply to any tranny tripping the light fantastic for the for the first time.
Rule 1...dress your age
if you are 40 or 50 years old (or even over 30) don't dress in a miniskirt. You are not a spice girl and you are inviting trouble. Go to a department store and ask the ladies wear dept to advise on what a middle aged woman would wear. Make an excuse....it's for your wife etc etc. who cares these days. Dressing outside your age will get you into more problems than anything else.
Rule 2...don't overdo the make up
in your enthusiasm to cover the beard shadow an inch thick of foundation is actually worse. Believe it or not women have hair too...on their arms, upper lip and all sorts of places.
Rule 3...study women
(the right sort of course !) and how they act and don't overdo the I'm a little girl bit in your demeanour. Women are not like that unless they are 16 years old or an experienced Joan Collins.
Rule 4...don't speak from your chest
try talking from the top of your mouth. eg your head. Do not try a falsetto or you will end up squeaking and that is worse. Guys speak from the chest - Women speak from the mouth.
Rule 5...don't smoke in the street and don't order pints of beer
unless you are at a tranny club and you really have to have a pint.
Rule 6....get proper advice on wigs, clothes, hair and make up
what you think looks great probably doesn't. Hair colour and make up have to blend with your natural colour.
Rule 7....think about how you will react to guys
this is not so funny as it seems - as a woman you are inviting the attention of the now new opposite sex (men) and if you handle things wrong then it's probably trouble. Remember it is usually straight hetro guys that will be interested and if you are convincing and plan on winding a guy up sexually then be warned. If it comes to a sexual encounter and you want to go through with it you had better be honest first. A guy's ego can be damaged to find out that he just asked what he may later perceive as another guy to bed with him and NEVER EVER have unprotected sex so carry a condom if you think things may end up that way. Learning how to act as a woman takes time and experience. Don't rush it. Handle things right and you will discover that the power of sex is something you will learn to use to your advantage.
Rule 8....when you sit down always cross your legs
if you sit with your legs apart you will attract attention in public. Guys sit with their legs apart, women always sit with legs crossed.
Rule 9....using the ladies loo
well clearly your not going to use the gents ! - that would be suicide. Make sure you leave the seat down ! - If you have a skirt or dress on even questionable females have the right to use female public toilets these days. If you have jeans or pants on you may be ousted or it may raise comment. You don't need that.
Rule 10....smile
not so funny actually - when you meet someone in public a smile does a great deal to make them feel at ease (even if they make you) - remember personality carries the day far more than looks. Once they realise you don't bite or have obvious hang ups then most things will follow on more smoothly.
Passing as a woman when you are a genetic male is probably one of the hardest things you will ever encounter. Guys don't sit like ladies they don't walk like ladies and they certainly don't talk like ladies. Forget the male accent, the content of guys conversations is entirely blokish. So what can you do ? - I have been at many tranny bars and seen a TV asking for a pint of bitter and a large portion of scampi in the basket.... the proverbial "thanks mate" resounding to the barman. I suppose that if you just want to have some fun, do something different and go out with your friends dressed as the opposite sex then all that would be fine. If you happen to be ex services elite special forces then the odd comment or worse from passers by will not concern you too much. A lady like punch in the throat is more the order of the day. Acting in the role of a woman takes time, practice and a great deal of confidence.
Confidence comes with knowing that you look pretty much ok and that at least you pass in general terms. Somebody in the medical profession once told me that one person in a hundred would make you as being from the opposite gender - I never actually believed that as I thought at first "Oh my God everybody is looking at me".The truth is that out in the real World people have not got the time to take much notice and if they did make you then chances are they would be more scared of you. Coming out in public is a real eye opener. I remember going into restuarants and heads turning and the obvious thought is "Ouch I'm made". Sorry, very wrong ! - and it took a few months for me to realise that if you are tall, have great legs most women would kill for and have long blonde hair you are going to get looked at. Indeed these days if I don't get looked at in restaurants and bars I get very pissed off - Hell it all cost a great deal of money so people should look. Ok so I am a TS (sorry I mean woman) but the same principles apply to any tranny tripping the light fantastic for the for the first time.
Rule 1...dress your age
if you are 40 or 50 years old (or even over 30) don't dress in a miniskirt. You are not a spice girl and you are inviting trouble. Go to a department store and ask the ladies wear dept to advise on what a middle aged woman would wear. Make an excuse....it's for your wife etc etc. who cares these days. Dressing outside your age will get you into more problems than anything else.
Rule 2...don't overdo the make up
in your enthusiasm to cover the beard shadow an inch thick of foundation is actually worse. Believe it or not women have hair too...on their arms, upper lip and all sorts of places.
Rule 3...study women
(the right sort of course !) and how they act and don't overdo the I'm a little girl bit in your demeanour. Women are not like that unless they are 16 years old or an experienced Joan Collins.
Rule 4...don't speak from your chest
try talking from the top of your mouth. eg your head. Do not try a falsetto or you will end up squeaking and that is worse. Guys speak from the chest - Women speak from the mouth.
Rule 5...don't smoke in the street and don't order pints of beer
unless you are at a tranny club and you really have to have a pint.
Rule 6....get proper advice on wigs, clothes, hair and make up
what you think looks great probably doesn't. Hair colour and make up have to blend with your natural colour.
Rule 7....think about how you will react to guys
this is not so funny as it seems - as a woman you are inviting the attention of the now new opposite sex (men) and if you handle things wrong then it's probably trouble. Remember it is usually straight hetro guys that will be interested and if you are convincing and plan on winding a guy up sexually then be warned. If it comes to a sexual encounter and you want to go through with it you had better be honest first. A guy's ego can be damaged to find out that he just asked what he may later perceive as another guy to bed with him and NEVER EVER have unprotected sex so carry a condom if you think things may end up that way. Learning how to act as a woman takes time and experience. Don't rush it. Handle things right and you will discover that the power of sex is something you will learn to use to your advantage.
Rule 8....when you sit down always cross your legs
if you sit with your legs apart you will attract attention in public. Guys sit with their legs apart, women always sit with legs crossed.
Rule 9....using the ladies loo
well clearly your not going to use the gents ! - that would be suicide. Make sure you leave the seat down ! - If you have a skirt or dress on even questionable females have the right to use female public toilets these days. If you have jeans or pants on you may be ousted or it may raise comment. You don't need that.
Rule 10....smile
not so funny actually - when you meet someone in public a smile does a great deal to make them feel at ease (even if they make you) - remember personality carries the day far more than looks. Once they realise you don't bite or have obvious hang ups then most things will follow on more smoothly.
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