Sissy Maid Etiquette

Sissy Maid Etiquette

The specific responsibilities of a Sissy Maid are obviously determined by her Mistress or Master, but we can certainly cover a few of the basics. Keep in mind that these tips are merely rudimentary. To be truly "in service" to someone entails understanding them completely. Observe and learn!

Wardrobe

* A proper Sissy Maid is always impeccably groomed, with hair elegantly swept away from the face and fastened stylishly.

* You should look fresh and alert, but never draw too much attention to yourself. Makeup should be kept to a minimum. Don't forget to apply a subtle shade of lipstick as it provides a fine, finished look.

* An attractive uniform with starched cotton collar and cuffs gives an impression of professionalism. Ruffles and frills not only make you feel more feminine, they are decorative and pleasing to the eye.

* Hose are a must, as bare legs can be far too prurient! It is best to inquire whether your Mistress or Master prefers light or dark hose, as the overall effects of the two are quite dissimilar.

* Shoes should be comfortable enough for you to function, yet pleasing to the eye, with a two-inch heel at the very least. Unfortunately, while comfortable shoes may make YOUR tasks easier, they are MOST unsightly! Leave those white orthopedics for nurses on maternity wards and invest in a lovely pair of pumps. Patent leather has a brilliant shine that will reflect candlelight as well as your refined taste. Make sure to practice walking in them before you serve in them, because an upset pot of tea will only result in an upset Mistress! As you gain experience, wearing higher heels will be admirable. Anyone who can serve in stilettos is a wonderful find!

* The final touch could be a flirty pair of panties, for why have a Sissy Maid if you can't enjoy a bit of leering? Modest ruffles, clean white cotton or seductive black lace will communicate your desires. Of course, there's no telling if your Master will take them into account!

* Additional details such as seamed, lace, fishnet or opaque hose, garters, corset, maid caps or hair ribbons can be added as you become more comfortable in your role or as your Mistress's tastes dictate.

Duties

* The house must be kept spotless, without one speck of dust. Why else would you be carrying that feather duster, you silly girl!

* Providing for your Mistress or Master's every need should be of the utmost importance to you. Picking up groceries, dry cleaning and forgotten sundries should go without saying. Any tasks your Master or Mistress finds unpleasant will no doubt fall to you, so learn to smile while you change that kitty litter!

* To win their affection in addition to their respect, you would be well advised to furnish the occasional surprise: a bouquet of your Mistress's favorite flowers or a perfectly chilled martini for your Master on a perceived evening of stress. One must possess a certain amount of female intuition to recognize the times when these gestures will be most appreciated. Hopefully they will never go unrewarded!

* When your Master comes home, there should be slippers immediately made available. Your Mistress will always be thrilled by a freshly-drawn bath. And everyone simply adores being adored! Don't fawn or make a fool of yourself, but do let them know that their wish is your command.

* One of the most anticipated tasks for a Sissy Maid is waiting on one's Mistress or Master's friends. When they welcome company, your talents are being showcased. Be sure to be on your best behavior!

* Be prepared to be punished for disobedience or mistakes. When admonished, keep your emotions in check. Regardless of how humiliating your punishment may be, remember that it is part of your training and will only serve to make you a more skilled and valued servant.

* Be equally prepared to be punished by your Master or Mistress's friends, because as you are merely property, they may enjoy seeing you humiliated by others.

* You may also be rewarded by a friend or associate when your Master or Mistress is pleased. Never forget that you are a subservient whose entire being is available for the whims of your keepers.

* Be sure to thank whoever is administering your punishment or reward. A spanking or caning should be as enthusiastically received as a compliment or pat on the head.

Manners

* The first thing a proper Sissy Maid should learn is how to curtsy. A brief bob, with an accompanying nod of the head, should suffice. And add a polite "Yes, ma'am," or "Right away, sir," after receiving instructions, to communicate that you've heard and understood.

* When serving your Mistress or Master's friends, it is your time to shine and show what a wonderfully trained servant you are. Answer the door with a smile and immediately offer to take the guest's wrap. Inquire about desired beverages and how the guest would like them served. "Can I get you a coffee, ma'am?" is an obvious question, so be sure to follow it with "How would you like it?"

* If you are assisting with a dinner party, offer the guest a cocktail, let them know when the meal will be served or show them to the table - whichever is appropriate. Consider yourself a tour guide to a foreign land and help the guest negotiate unfamiliar territory, even if they've visited the home many times before. The more comfortable they feel, the better. Even more importantly, the less everyone has to think - about where to sit or refills to request - the more they will be able to enjoy their visit.

* Always monitor your Mistress or Master's emotions. Are you pleasing them? Alter your behavior accordingly on a moment-by-moment basis. Learn to anticipate! Train yourself to be a mind reader!

* You would be well served to read every book of etiquette you can get your hands on! One can never be too refined! And these long-respected tomes contain all the necessary knowledge to politely and properly serve.